If we ever do try IVF/ICSI again, there is one thing we would do differently.
Not inform anyone.
Yeap. First of all, there is pressure, from parents esp. They are overly concern. Which is because they love us, but then, it can get a bit too much that it ends up in pressure.
Some truly understand so they know what to say to you. They even give you the space because they respect the fact that you need to do this alone, with your husband. But some who don't - just tell you stuff that it's the last things you want to hear.
I know that they are all very concerned, sad and what not. But it has happened to us. We were hit the worst. So please, spare us.
My SIL said something about me that I realized is true. When I am upset, I will be upset. Plus this was the worst news we ever got. So yes, I will be. But I will also pull myself together and come out strong.
It's Day 7 (21st Jan) as I write this, and I am fine. I am proud of my progress and so is hubby!